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Why hate always defeats us and why love conquers all...
Posted On 10/02/2008 20:09:58 by Bodhi


Why would hate always defeat us and why would love always conquer all? Quite a question but let me venture an answer. When we hate someone, we focus all our energy and consciousness on the person we hate. Thus we pattern our lives on the object of our hate; we dedicate our forces and ourselves to get back at the person or object of hate. We are driven to give more than we can give as an expression of our hate and because of this we feel stronger, more alive, more committed to our hate. In the end, we become what we hate in order to defeat the person or object of our hate. Once the person or object of hate is no more, we unconsciously find out that we are already what we hate and turn our destructive energies against ourselves. Remember Darth Vader or Frozen Throne...? Thats the power of the dark force. But the power of love works on the opposite...to give bread to the one who throws you a stone will turn whatever hate against itself and dissipate immediately. The darkness is immediately put to light and will have to disappear. When love touches the evil person, he will recoil because he will feel compelled to face his own evil...if there is still hope...he will be transformed....if not he will die at the expense of his own evil...but this is yet another form of transformation. Whatever negative energies one delivers to you, a loving smile, a look of understanting, a compassionate touch is powerful enough to dispel the negativity. When St. Francis of Assisi was begging for money for the poor, one rich man spat on him while saying bad words. St Francis smiled and said, "Thanks, that is for me. How about what you can give to the poor?" And the rich man immediately became his disciple. You see how love conquers all.

Tags: Love; Hate; Love And Hate



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10/07/2008 13:51:14
So true, so true. We waste too much of our energy on negativity, be grateful and happy. Try looking at gratfuleness.org, you'll love it. Negativity can make you physically ill, believe me I have been there and know it is the truth. Now I have peace, tranquility, and health in my life. I intend to keep it that way.


10/03/2008 21:03:12
I whole heartedly agree with you. Thank you for your wonderful words. There is a wonderful book by James Twyman called "Portrait of the Master" It is a wonderful story of how blessed St. Francis was. I pray to be like him.

Christina


10/03/2008 17:59:53
How true!

If we glance around America this week, so many are freaking out over their money and the stock market. From what I understand one protest was complete with signs reading "Jump Baby Jump" referring to the Great Depression stock market crash where many committed suicide.

Now... If all minds were turned toward a happy thought instead, there wouldn't be any energy leftover to hate with, or joke? about how people should take their own lives.

I guess that the trick is: how to we get people to focus on happy things while being bombarded through radio, television, and internet with the constant bad news to dwell on.

But, a better world is coming!!! A happy place!!! So, we'll figure out how not to let hate consume our energy. Otherwise, we wouldn't have been promised happy times on the horizon after the bad times.




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