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Why Can't Relatioinships Be Straightforward?
Posted On 11/12/2008 22:08:15 by joyce_p
I'm into this guy who I've only known for about a month. I don't know what's going on with him most of the time. He gives all indications that he's into me too, including asking me out, and then suddenly I don't hear from him for a couple of days. I don't know if he just doesn't call when nothing's happening, or if he has decided I'm not all that. I obsess over what might be happening. Finally I did hear from him today and he said he had been sick so he didn't call, but everything is fine. Then he said he'd call me tonight but didn't. Why do people do these things? Why do they feel compelled to say what they think we want to hear rather than the truth? Wouldn't life be easier and more pleasant if people were just honest with each other? Wouldn't it be less stressful for everyone?

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From: KELLIEC
11/15/2008 00:40:16
Stop chasing him and let him become the chaser !!! He has that security that you will be there when he comes calling. Its very hard but make him stop and think about you !!!! Let him feel a lil of that in security you are feeling. One piece of advise i can give you from expierence. Never Never wrap your whole life around one person because you will always be disappointed. And remeber men are from mars and women are from venus. Our minds are built to think differentley. Have you talked to him and told him how you feel ???


From: Catherine
11/14/2008 10:38:34
I think that every female in America has gone through that at some point in their lives. It's not that the guys aren't trying; we're just thinking differently.

Females are taught to communicate and nurture while the guys are taught to never show their emotions.

With those two opposite ways of starting a relationship in place, it's totally amazing that our society ever has anybody get together at all.

So... What happens if you think like a guy? Forget times and plans made for when you will be communicating next - and, just make your own plan about when you will dial his number next?

I know, that's a toughie. But, think of it this way. We do call friends without making a date to do it all of the time.

Good luck with your new buddy! Catherine


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