01/14/2008 16:37:00

Hello there, I don't have a boyfriend either. I am kind of big also for my age 35 and  and 5'2, I am a trainer @ curves. I have a lot of curves. hehe
I can lose 20 just like that and gain it right back just like that. SO if you feel fat wear pink :) thats what I do and it helps have no Idea why. If you feel ugly get a make over. I do this to when I have a ugly day I go to my hair dresser and he fix's my hair for me just a style. It helps so much :) 
Now for the Boyfriend Part, Match.com I have not done it but have friends that have and they say its wonderful. 
There other personal sites out there also. We should be able to get what we want theres a lot of men out there to choose from. Ok hope this helps ...Peace&Love :)

09/21/2006 14:02:04

Sweetheart, let me tell you that I've felt the same lonely feelings before. I was single for two years and went through a ton of breakups to the point where I felt like giving up entirely. Being physically pretty only makes things worse. Men want to date you purely to get into your panties! And if you are a woman like me, one who is looking for a long term relationship with love, you keep getting your heart broken, over and over.

I even got sick of hearing "Are you kidding me, no boyfriend? What's wrong with you?" Just because people think I'm pretty.

I'll tell you that being physically pretty isn't going to get you a boyfriend. Its about letting the universe bring the right man into your life, who sees you as the most beautiful ceature who ever walked the planet, in its own time.

And while you are waiting, work on yourself, you self esteem, your positive mental attitude. That's what I did! Once I stopped worrying about meeting Mr. Right, I started enjoying life, getting outdoors, starting new hobbies, enjoying nature, making new friends. Then, out of nowhere, Mr. Right came into my life, like a whirlwind!

;o)

09/19/2006 16:36:24

Hi, May I ask your name? I think you look fantastic and what I've read from your profile you represent true beauty :) As far as what Nadine said below - I couldn't have said it better myself!

It maybe nice to have others in your life that help sweeten the journey, but the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself.
When you dial into that divine energy called Love without Fear - you are one with all that is magical and you lack nothing!

Bliss and Blessings,

Your Friend on this Journey,

STEVEN

09/18/2006 14:50:56

oh girl...you dont need you want. Your life is what you make it. so if your feeling down...change it...if your feeling over wieght...change it. sometimes easier said than done but that is part of the growing within urself process. and girl, your not ugly. And just for your information...boyfriends arent always joy,joy,joy. :) The energy you give out to those around you, will be the energy you recieve back to yourself. Think good thoughts and good things will happen. have a great day and dont be so hard on yourself. take care. blessed be.